Ubomi buzele yimiceli mngeni, emikhulu nemincinci. Nokuba sijamelene nokusilela emsebenzini, sijongene nengxaki yezempilo, okanye sijamelene nentlekele yobuqu, sonke sidibana nobunzima obunokuvavanya amandla ethu okubuyela umva. Ukomelela bubuchule obusenza sikwazi ukutyhubela le mingeni ngobabalo kwaye siphume sinamandla kwelinye icala.
Ukomelela akulophawu olusisigxina esizalwa sinalo okanye singenalo. Kunoko, bubuchule obunokufundwa nokuphuhliswa ngokuqhelisela. Inzululwazi yokomelela iphonononga izinto ezinegalelo ekomeleleni kwaye ibonelele ngendlela esinokuhlakulela ngayo obu buchule.
Enye yezinto eziphambili ezibangela ukomelela kukucinga. Ingqondo yokukhula, ebona imiceli mngeni njengamathuba okufunda nokukhula, inceda ngakumbi ekwakheni ukomelela kunengqondo ezinzileyo ejonga imingeni njengemiqobo engenakoyiswa. Ngokwamkela ingcamango yokukhula kunye nokuhlengahlengisa imiceli mngeni njengamathuba okukhula, sinokwakha ukomelela kwethu kwaye sijongane nobunzima ngesimo sengqondo esilungileyo.
Enye into ebalulekileyo ekwakheni ukomelela yinkxaso yoluntu. Ukuba nonxibelelwano lwabahlobo abaxhasayo, amalungu entsapho, nabantu osebenza nabo kunokunikela intuthuzelo nokhuthazo ngamaxesha obunzima. Ukongeza, ukufuna izixhobo ezinje ngengcebiso okanye unyango kunokusinceda siphuhlise izakhono zokumelana kwaye sifunde iindlela zokubuyela umva.
Ekugqibeleni, ukunyamezela kufuna ukulungelelanisa. Ukukwazi ukuziqhelanisa ngokuguquguqukayo neemeko eziguqukayo ngundoqo wokujongana neengxaki zobomi. Oku kunokubandakanya ukuphonononga kwakhona iinjongo zethu nezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, ukuphuhlisa izakhono okanye amacebo amatsha, okanye ukufumana izisombululo ezinobuchule kwiingxaki.
Ukuqukumbela, inzululwazi yokomelela ibonelela ngeembono ezixabisekileyo malunga nendlela esinokuhlakulela ngayo obu buchule bubalulekileyo. Ngokwamkela isimo sengqondo sokukhula, ukwakha uthungelwano lwethu lwenkxaso yoluntu, kunye nokuphuhlisa ukuguquguquka, sinokubuyela umva kwimicelimngeni yobomi kwaye siphume somelele kwaye somelele ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
